Learn About BFRBs → What are BFRBs?

What Are BFRBs?

Body-focused repetitive behaviors (BFRBs) are recurring behaviors like hair pulling, skin picking, cheek and lip biting that can be difficult to stop, even when someone wants to.

They’re more common than people realize, and often deeply misunderstood.

A Simple Way to Understand Them

BFRBs are not random. They tend to follow patterns and often serve a purpose—like helping someone cope with stress, regulate emotions, or respond to physical sensations.

For many people, they can feel automatic, hard to control, or both.

More Than a “Bad Habit”

BFRBs are often mistaken for habits that someone should be able to “just stop.”

But for people experiencing them, it’s not that simple.

These behaviors are connected to how the brain processes urges, emotions, and reinforcement making them much harder to change without the right support.

Why They’re Often Hidden

Next: Why Do They Happen →

Simple definition

Examples (hair pulling, skin picking, etc.)

“Not self-harm” clarification

Normalize experience

BFRBs can show up in different ways—and many people experience more than one.

Types of BFRB’s

List as: Core Types (Primary cards or sections)

Hair Pulling

Skin Picking

Nail Biting

Cheek & Lip Biting

Additional / Less Talked About (sub-section)

👉 Label it something like:

“Other Common BFRBs”

or

“Other Forms of BFRBs”

Then include:

Nose picking

Hair-focused behaviors

Skin-focused variations

Break it down clearly

Hair pulling (trichotillomania)

Skin picking (excoriation)

Nail biting

Cheek/lip biting

Hair Pulling (Trichotillomania)

Skin Picking (Excoriation)

Nail Biting (Onychophagia)

Cheek / Lip Biting (Morsicatio)

Nose Picking (Rhinotillexomania)

Skin Picking Variants

Scab picking

Cuticle picking

Acne picking

don’t need separate categories—just examples under skin picking)

Hair-related behaviors beyond pulling - Hair playing / rubbing / twirling, Trichophagia (hair eating)

Other body-focused habits (Skin rubbing Scratching (non-itch related)

Why do BFRBs happen?

Emotional regulation

Sensory component

Habit loops

Genetics / biology

This is not your fault”

Common myths

“It’s just a bad habit” ❌

“You can just stop” ❌

“It’s self-harm” ❌

Signs & Impact

Physical signs

Emotional impact

Social effects

Shame / hiding behaviors

What Helps

Include:

Evidence-based approaches (high level)

Therapy types (light mention)

Tools / strategies

⚠️ BUT:

👉 Position as:

“what’s been shown to help”

NOT “what we provide”

For Parents / Loved Ones

  • How to respond

  • What NOT to do

  • How to support